Style and Grooming
Should I Grow a Beard? Will It Make Me More Attractive?
Is it worth it to grow a beard? The honest answer is: it depends on you. A beard can look great on some men and not on others. The good news is that it is easy to test, and it always grows back or comes off.
What research says
Some studies have found that women, on average, rate light stubble or a full beard a bit higher than a clean shave, especially when thinking about long term partners. But the same research also shows that tastes vary a lot from person to person. There is no rule that works for everyone.
One man even tested this on Tinder by using the same photos with and without a beard. Results like this are fun, but they only show what worked for one face in one city. Your face is what matters.
When a beard tends to help
- If your beard grows in fairly full and even
- If you want to add shape to a soft or round jawline
- If you look very young and want to look a bit older
- If you will keep it trimmed and clean
When shaving or stubble may be better
- If your beard is very patchy
- If it grows in a color that does not match your hair and you do not like it
- If you do not want to spend time on upkeep
- If your skin gets itchy or irritated
Many men find that short, even stubble is a nice middle ground.
How to test it
- Stop shaving for 4 to 6 weeks. The first two weeks are often itchy and messy. Push through if you can.
- Get it shaped by a barber, even if it is short. A clean neckline and cheek line make a huge difference.
- Take photos in the same light at each stage: clean shaven, stubble, and short beard.
- Compare them, and ask others.
Keeping a beard neat
- Neckline: Shave below a line about one to two fingers above your Adam's apple. Do not trim too close to your jaw, as it can make your face look heavier.
- Cheek line: Keep it natural, just clean up stray hairs.
- Trim often: Every week or two keeps it even.
- Wash it: Use a gentle wash and a little beard oil or moisturizer to stop itch and flakes.
Let others choose
It is hard to judge your own facial hair because you see it change slowly. A good way to decide is to compare photos. On The Face They See, you can upload 3 photos, like clean shaven, stubble, and beard, and women rank them for free. That shows you which look they prefer on you.
The main idea
A beard is one of the easiest looks to try. If it grows in well and you keep it neat, it can help. If it is patchy, short stubble or a clean shave may suit you better. Test it, take photos, and let the results guide you.